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| Jul 29, 2005 8:23 pm |
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re: How Do YOu Get What YOu Want From a Man (or Woman) |
| Susan Perkins
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WHOA! This is a biggy!
Answer: Simple - Communicate; Communicate; Communicate; and then Communicate again!
Avoid "You" messages - instead - use your "I" messages -
Although I'm not in a relationship - haven't been for many years - I see that all relationships thrive with good communication skills - telling others how we feel, what we would like, what we can do for them to help them with their needs, and then develop a way between all parties to get it done, if you will.
If it happens that I may come across that someone special - before I ever enter a more serious relationship - I will be open (with gentleness) and express what I would like from the bonding - and make sure what their expectations are to assure I can meet them - before anything ever transpires...
Now for you guys in a relationship already - Tweak your communication skills - never manipulate - never scream - never "withold" anything good with the view to "getting" something for yourself....never works.
Great stuff Sandra! - Now I NEED to close out my month!
Warmest, Susan The DC Connector
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