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| Aug 11, 2005 4:32 pm |
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re: Step-parenting tips |
Ann Zuccardy - Vermont Shortbread Company
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Sandy,
Thanks for your kind offer! I will PM you with my e-mail address and look at the book on your site as well.
Do you have any statistics on divorce rates in second marriages? I would imagine they're higher than for first marriages. Dealing with exes, money and power struggles, mixed families, custody, scheduling...oy vay...I can see how challenging it could be if the marriage is not rock solid and full of loving communication.
I am beginning to realize that I can only model the values I believe in (the connection between work and money, clear boundaries, consequences and rewards, volunteerism, self-reliance) - I can't force them down his kids' or my own child's throat. By leading by quiet example, rather than by constantly whining about how hard it is to step parent: I am 1) not giving power in MY home to the ex and 2) living in integrity. And, really, this is all any parent can do.
I am loving your network!
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