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| Aug 16, 2005 3:51 pm |
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re: re: My Dad Had Another Saying... |
Sue T.
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I see what you're saying and I agree. I think he was talking more along the lines of being good to a woman ... like we've been talking about. Respect, mutuality etc., course :) that was my interpretation of it, which I probably should have put here as well... I didn't review my original post though.
I have an article that I wrote, with regard to just how intoxicating the pull of sex can and is in a relationship... it can confuse the reality of what you are truly dealing with because, really if it is "good" sex a woman can make certain allowances and confuse the intimacy of a healthy relationship where there is mutuality, communication etc., with the intimacy and closeness that sex obviously creates ... it can give the woman the illusion of being "close" to this man.
However one form of intimacy should not be confused with the other.
I think women, may be uncomfortable making a man wait for sex and holding back. Really, if he's respectful of her wishes and waits, and wants the committed relationship, I agree as well it is better to wait. That attraction is "always" going to be there regardless... and it can be just that much more fun in the anticipation arena as well... :)
Course, whether or not it is good sex... is a thread of an entirely different color.
If a woman rushes into sex with a fella, and then after the good behavior period is over and she determines as to whether or not she wants to sleep with them, there is also that sexual separation to deal with as well... Which of course, can be avoided... :)
I'm writing reeeeeeeeally fast LOL I do hope I'm being clear.
Sue T.Private Reply to Sue T. (new win) |
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