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| Aug 30, 2005 9:36 pm |
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re: re: re: Seeking input |
| KerryF
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Hi Ken,
You know what? As long as you are upfront about your health and financial issues when the relationship gets deep enough to share that kind of info then you should just go for it and let the women decide if they're up for the challenge.
My father-in-law was widowed a handfull of years ago. All of his children (except for my husband) are a pack of blood sucking, money grubbing babies (although they're all adults). His health is not great. He is severly over weight and is prone to heart disease. He is also a used car salesman making nearly nothing.
I NEVER thought he would find anyone else who would put up with all the trouble and baggage he comes with. NEVER! Who in their right mind would take him and his family on?! Who would help support him while he makes nearly nothing every day. Who would take him on once they knew everything about what he did (or didn't) bring to the relationship?
Well, a year and a half ago he found a wonderful woman. She not only did NOT mind his messed up children, but she's helped to teach them a little bit about self support. She's also helped him with his health issues, convincing him to lose weight, stop drinking soda and start walking. She doesn't mind one bit that she makes $70,000 a year and he makes about $25,000 a year.
She is totally supportive of him and his family. She has been a God send for him. I am very thankful he put himself back on the market and ran into this wonderful woman.
You should do the same thing. If you want companionship, then you deserve companionship. Go for it!
Kerry Flinders
Author of Organizing With NO Budget!
http://www.organizinghelp4u.com
Network Leader of Organinizing Boot Camp
http://obc-network.ryze.comPrivate Reply to KerryF (new win) |
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