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| Nov 21, 2005 12:46 am |
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re: re: re: re: Why Do Men Lie to Women? |
Alan Zibluk
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I can’t speak for all men, but I can speak for myself and
other male friends. I was in a relationship with a woman
and I could never be alone again with my family, my
friends or just by myself. She thought it was so strange
that I just wanted to take 5 minutes to drive to the gas
station and fill the car up. She would say “we can do
that while we were going out somewhere.”
When we were with my friends or family, I had to watch
everything I said. I couldn’t be ME around them. She
would be embarrassed if I was with my friends in college
and we reminisced. She didn’t want to know any of it but
at the same time I could not ever be alone with the people
who cared about me. I was on my best behavior around her
friends but around my friends I should be able to be ME.
I should be able to discuss who I was and who I am today.
This is just my experience.
Today I am retired from relationships, however I have male
friends who are like “don’t tell my wife I stopped by.”
Also I have male friends who once in a blue moon will tell
their wives they are going to work a little late but
actually have a drink after work. I mean just one drink
and then rush home.
My male friends are very reserved when their women are
around and the few times they are alone they are more
relaxed and can say whatever without it coming back to
haunt them.
I think it is okay for a man to lie to a woman if it
prevents her being mad and/or just disappointed for a few
days. If we tell the truth, we just get into trouble.
This is just my experience and the experiences of the
people I know.
Alan
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